Locations
Kinky Dating by City: Joburg, Cape Town, Pretoria, Durban
Find kinky singles across South Africa, see how young the crowd is and where to meet safely in each city.
Kinky Singles has members across South Africa. Johannesburg has the most members, then Cape Town, Pretoria and Durban, and Gauteng alone holds more than four in ten. Smaller towns have members too, so say how far you will travel.
Kinky singles in every province
Each member lists their nearest town or city, and nothing more precise is ever shown. That is how the site can tell you who is near you without telling anyone where you live.
- Over 4 in 10members are in Gauteng
- Almost 1 in 5are in the Western Cape
- Almost 1 in 7are in KwaZulu-Natal
- Over 8 in 10are under 45
Pick a city
- Kinky dating in Johannesburg
The busiest city on the site, with a young crowd and Melville, Rosebank and Sandton for a first meeting.
- Kinky dating in Cape Town
Second busiest, with Pride in February, the Waterfront and a consent-led local community to read about.
- Kinky dating in Pretoria
A calmer register than Johannesburg, with a student district and a Gautrain station.
- Kinky dating in Durban
The youngest crowd of the four, with Florida Road and a long beachfront.
Across the site
A young crowd, mostly under 45
Nearly two in three are between 18 and 34.
All members by age.
About four in ten are 25 to 34 and almost a quarter are 18 to 24. The city pages show the same split for each place.
Kinky singles in smaller towns too
Members also list Centurion, Benoni, Bloemfontein, Gqeberha (Port Elizabeth), Rustenburg, Kempton Park and other towns, and members are in every province. If you do not live in one of the four big cities, say how far you are willing to travel in your first message, and use kinky dating near me to see how the site finds people close to you.
VIP members can filter by city and distance, which helps most outside the big four. The features page shows what VIP adds and the pricing page shows every price in rand.
Finding people near you
Where are most Kinky Singles members?
In Gauteng, which holds more than four in ten members, then the Western Cape and KwaZulu-Natal. Johannesburg is the busiest city, followed by Cape Town, Pretoria and Durban.
Is my exact location shown to other members?
No. Only your nearest town or city appears on your profile, never your address or live location. Choose a public place for a first meeting rather than sharing where you live.
Can I find kinky people in a small town?
Yes, but there will be fewer, so widen the distance you are willing to travel and be clear about it in your first message. Members are in towns across all nine provinces, and the daily match suggestions take distance into account.
Find play partners in your city
Create a profile and let the site do the distance.
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