Adults only
Adult Dating South Africa: Kinky Hook-Ups and Encounters
For adults aged 18 and over: say what you’re into, look for the ID badge and keep your real name to yourself.
What to check
What to look for in an adult dating site
Seven things worth checking before you hand over a username, a photo or a payment. Here is how Kinky Singles answers each one.
| Check | What you want | Kinky Singles |
|---|---|---|
| Age | Adults only, properly enforced | 18 and over, with age assurance: an AI age estimate and further checks where required |
| Identity | A way to confirm who you are talking to | Free ID verification with a badge, and a live video check with a moderator that needs no documents |
| Username | A name that is not your own | Safe usernames, with your real name and email never shown |
| Location | A town, not a street | Only your nearest town or city appears |
| Prices | Plain prices in your own currency | Every membership priced in rand on the pricing page |
| Support | A person to ask | 24/7 human support |
| Control | Block and report in a tap | Instant blocking and easy reporting |
The safety page lists the protections in full, and the pricing page shows what every membership includes.
Know what you are joining
Looking for hook-ups? Here is how it works
If you have been searching for South African adult websites, hookup websites or Mzansi hookups, this is where Kinky Singles fits. It is an adult site for kinky sex, fetish hook-ups, BDSM play partners and casual kinky encounters, with the kink named up front instead of explained later.
You build a profile, tag what you are into, get daily match suggestions and talk first, then decide for yourself whether to meet. The guide to kinky dating sites in South Africa sets out the other options, and the features page shows what members can do.
Who is here
Adventurous adults, from experienced to curious
Kinky Singles is for adults aged 18 and over, and for nobody else. Many of the people here are into kink and fetish. Others are curious and say so, and both are welcome.
- Online since 2009
- More than 500 members across South Africa
- More than eight in ten members under 45
- Interest tags for BDSM, fetish and roleplay
- Secure hosting with SSL encryption
- Involved with the Online Dating and Discovery Association
Getting started
From joining to a first conversation
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Choose a username that gives nothing away
Skip your surname, your workplace and your birth year, and pick something playful rather than traceable. Other members see only the username and your nearest town or city.
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Build a profile that says what you are after
Add a photo you are comfortable with and tag what you are into, from Dom and Sub to Latex and Feet. Free ID verification then adds a badge to your profile.
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Talk before you decide anything
Your daily match suggestions give you people to say hello to. Message them, agree what is on and what is off the table, and meet only if you both want to.
18 and over only: nobody under 18 has any place on Kinky Singles, and the age checks in the table above are there to keep it that way. If a profile ever worries you, report it.
Adult dating questions
Is Kinky Singles an adult site?
Yes. It is an adult dating site for people aged 18 and over, online since 2009. You build a profile, tag your interests, browse other members and get daily match suggestions, and you choose who you talk to and whether you ever meet.
Do I need to be into kink to join?
No. Some of the people here are curious rather than experienced. Say which you are, tag only what fits and ask questions. Nobody has to know the vocabulary on day one, and our guide to BDSM for beginners covers the words.
Is Kinky Singles a hook-up site?
Yes. It is an adult site for kinky sex, fetish hook-ups and casual kinky encounters as well as regular BDSM play partners. Members say on their profiles what they are after, nobody is promised an outcome, and you meet only if you both want to.
How do I check who I am talking to?
Look for the ID verified badge, which comes from free ID verification, and talk for a while before you meet. A badge shows someone completed the check. It does not tell you how they behave, so judge them by how they treat your limits.
Where can I see what it costs?
Every membership and its price in rand is on the pricing page, along with what each one includes, so you can see what you would get before you decide. Everyone starts on Classic and can move up to VIP or VIP Plus later.
Find kinky hook-ups at your own pace
Choose a username, pick your tags and decide who you talk to.
Create your profile