Features
Kinky Singles Features: Find Play Partners Your Way
Interest tags, daily matches, chat, ID checks and privacy tools: everything members can do, and what VIP adds.
For every member
What you get the moment you join
Everyone starts on Classic membership, which gives you a full profile from day one.
Interest tags
Say what you are into with tags such as Dom, Sub, Switch, Bondage & Discipline, S&M, Spanking / Whipping and Roleplay, so your profile does the introducing.
Daily matches
New suggestions arrive each day, built around distance, age, recent activity, what you are looking for and the interests you list.
Browse profiles
Look through members whenever you like and see who is close to you before you say a word.
Photos and posts
Add photos, post status updates, and comment on articles, polls and other members’ posts.
Direct messages
Send a limited number of messages a day, and read and reply to every message from VIP and VIP Plus members.
Badges
Earn badges such as Verified, Chatterbox and Most Popular, which show you are real and active.
Classic, VIP and VIP Plus side by side
VIP removes the limits on talking and searching. VIP Plus adds visibility tools on top. Every price in rand is on the pricing page.
| Feature | Classic | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Profile, browsing, daily matches | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Free ID verification and badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Messages | A limited number a day | Unrestricted | Unrestricted |
| Advanced search filters | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive chat rooms | No | Yes | Yes |
| Private group chats, up to 50 people | No | Yes | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you | No | Yes | Yes |
| Rewind past profiles | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches | No | No | Yes |
| Priority for messages and likes | No | No | Yes |
| Top of the match stack | No | No | Yes |
| Boosts and Super Match | No | No | Add-ons |
Finding people
Search that understands what you are after
The site suggests. You decide.
Daily match suggestions weigh age range, gender and preferences, distance, how recently someone was active, what they are looking for, lifestyle habits such as drinking and smoking, and niche interests. What happens next is up to the two of you.
VIP members can go further with advanced search filters. You can filter by city, distance, experience level and what someone is open to, which narrows the field before you send a single message. VIP Plus members also sit at the top of other members’ match suggestions.
Looking near home? See kinky dating near me, or pick a city from our locations page.
Talking
Chat on your own terms
Classic members can message and reply, within a daily limit. VIP members message without a limit, join exclusive chat rooms and start private group chats of up to 50 people. Our guide to kinky chat covers how to start a conversation and talk limits in writing.
If someone tries to move the conversation to another app, such as WhatsApp, the site warns you, because that is a common scam tactic. Photos that may be sensitive are blurred with a warning until you choose to look.
Privacy and safety
Stay in control of who sees what
- Safe usernames. Your real name and email are never shown.
- Location privacy. Only your nearest town or city appears, never an exact address.
- Free ID verification. Every member can earn a badge on their profile.
- Live video check. A moderator confirms you are you, with no documents.
- Instant blocking. Anyone you block can no longer contact or see you.
- Easy reporting. Flag a member or a post to the team without leaving the site.
The full list, from age assurance to 24/7 human support, is on the safety page.
Built for your phone
Kinky Singles works in any browser on a laptop or a phone, and you can install it to your phone’s home screen so it opens like an app. Step-by-step instructions are on the kinky dating app page.
Questions about what you can do
What does VIP add to my membership?
VIP adds unrestricted messaging and advanced search filters, plus exclusive chat rooms, group chats of up to 50 people, rewind and a view of everyone who likes you, with priority for your comments. VIP Plus then adds exclusive matches, priority for your messages and likes, and the top of the match stack.
Can I search for a specific kink?
Every member can read the interest tags on a profile. VIP members can also filter by city, distance, experience level and what someone is open to, which narrows the field quickly without asking every member the same question.
What are Boosts and Super Match?
Both are paid add-ons for VIP Plus members. A Boost promotes your profile to active members in your area for a while, and a Super Match sends a highlighted message that the person you send it to will always see first.
How are daily matches chosen?
From age range, gender and preferences, distance, how recently someone was active, what they are looking for, lifestyle habits and niche interests. The suggestions open the door, and the conversation after that is yours.
Keep exploring
See who’s into what you’re into
Create a profile, pick your tags and see who is close to you.
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