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Kinky Singles vs Feeld: Kink First, Close to Home

An international dating app where kink is one desire among many, and a South African site built around kink alone.

The short answer

Feeld is a dating app where kink is one of many desires, with linked profiles for couples and groups. Kinky Singles South Africa is a dating site where kink is the point, with members across South Africa. Pick Feeld to appear as a pair or a small group, and us for kink-first dating close to home.

What does Feeld do well?

Feeld’s page title reads “Feeld: The Dating App for Open-Minded Individuals”, and its description says it connects open-minded people in a safe, inclusive space. Kink is on its list of desires, beside Roleplay, Kissing, Toys and others. Four terms are worth knowing.

Desires
The tags on your profile. Feeld lists filters for desires, location, distance and age, with more advanced filters on its paid tier.
Linked profiles
You can link your profile with up to five other people, or pair up as a couple, and group chats are part of the app.
Majestic
Its one paid tier, which adds extras such as seeing who liked you and unlimited likes. Feeld shows the price inside the app.
Verified badge
Feeld says it uses biometric identity verification to confirm people are who they say they are. Verified profiles carry a badge, and everyone must be 18 or over.

Your profile

Which words do you want on your profile?

On Feeld you add desires. These are some of the examples on its home page:

  • Kink
  • Roleplay
  • Kissing
  • Toys

Kink appears there as one desire among many. On Kinky Singles the interest tags name the role and the practice, so your profile makes the introduction before anyone sends a message:

  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Dom
  • Sub
  • Switch
  • S&M
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Roleplay
  • Latex
  • Feet
  • Medical Play
  • Dungeon Parties
  • Fetish & Kink

Tag yourself Dom, Sub or Switch and readers know where you stand. Still working out which fits? The guide to dom, sub and switch explains each role.

Where we differ

Kink as the point, members close to home

A dating app for the open-minded and a dating site for one scene make different promises.

Kink is the starting point. Kinky Singles is a kink dating site from the first page, and every tag on it is a scene word. You can lead with what you want instead of easing into it.

Members are in South Africa. Feeld says you can download it in most countries, so who you see depends on who has joined nearby. Kinky Singles has more than 500 members, mostly in Gauteng, the Western Cape and KwaZulu-Natal, with Johannesburg first, then Cape Town, Pretoria and Durban. On VIP, the search filters cover city, distance, experience level and what someone is open to. The city pages show where members are.

The prices are on one page. Classic, VIP and VIP Plus are set out together in rand on the pricing page, with the features page showing what each tier adds.

How does each one protect you?

  • On Feeld

    Biometric identity verification with a Verified badge, screenshot protection on images sent in chat, videos you can view once, an option to blur images that may contain nudity and a 24/7 safety team, all listed on its own pages.

  • On Kinky Singles

    Free ID verification with a badge, a live video check with a moderator and no documents, sensitive images blurred with a warning, instant blocking, easy reporting and 24/7 human support.

Different routes, and neither list is the whole story. Our safety page covers the rest of ours, and Feeld’s own pages cover its.

Questions about Feeld

Is Feeld a kink app?

Partly. Feeld lists Kink as one desire among others, including Roleplay, Kissing and Toys, so kinky people are welcome without kink being its only focus. Kinky Singles South Africa is built around kink, BDSM and fetish from the first page.

Can couples and groups use Feeld?

Yes. Feeld describes paired profiles for couples and linked profiles for up to five other people, and its FAQ says you can join as a couple or solo. If you want to be seen as a pair or a small group, that is where Feeld is strongest.

How much does Feeld cost?

The Feeld pages we read print no price. They say the app is free to start, that Majestic is the one paid tier and that its cost varies by location and is shown in the app. Our pricing page lists Classic, VIP and VIP Plus in rand.

Is Kinky Singles a good Feeld alternative in South Africa?

It is if kink is what you came for. Kinky Singles has scene tags such as Dom, Sub and Switch, daily match suggestions, ID verification and members across South Africa. Nothing stops you keeping a Feeld profile as well, particularly if you want to link up with a partner. Our comparisons cover the other names people ask about.

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